No, I can’t go to school – the menstrual taboo

Can you imagine putting your life on hold every month, to avoid the shame of menstruation?

That’s what happens when you can’t afford sanitary napkins and resort to using whatever you can as an alternative. Any old rag to staunch the flow is not only unhealthy (causing skin irritations and vaginal infections) but impracticable and messy. So many girls miss classes (worried about embarrassing stains and discomfort), become isolated and eventually drop out of school altogether. By missing out on education, they miss the opportunity for better employment, can become susceptible to sexual exploitation and ultimately perpetuate the cycle of poverty.

Can you imagine what it would mean to millions of girls and women around the world to have ready access to sanitary pads?

It would change lives! Imagine the confidence young women would gain in being able to live an unrestricted life knowing that their monthly periods were not going to hold them back or make them sick.

What we need is jugaad – a simple, but ingenious invention in the face of scarce resources – it’s what a can-do attitude can achieve!

The subject of menstrual health education – and connecting innovation with investment to provide sustainable solutions – has been close to my heart for many years, ever since working with Jane Otai on our African Girl Empowerment Program. Lunapads founder Madeleine Shaw

I had been following models such as those offered by Afripads and Huru, and recently had the pleasure of meeting Lunapads founder, Madeleine Shaw, in Vancouver. Madeleine showed me samples of the washable, reusable pads and demonstrated how the simple design of a comfortable, absorbent pad could provide hygiene and dignity to the users and a livelihood to the sewers, meaning potential empowerment for women all over the world!

Can you imagine how you could become involved in making it happen for them?

Now we can combine health education with a practical self-help option. With nominal start-up and operating costs, willing participants and a little training, the model is most definitely achievable and replicable across both poor rural villages and urban slums!

Here’s what we need:

  1. A women’s local, self-help group,
  2. A clean facility in which to sew,
  3. Sewing machines, fabric and notions,
  4. A trainer to teach the concept and business model.

At this time I have identified two communities – one in Nairobi, Kenya, and the other in Kolkata, India – that would benefit enormously from such a small enterprise.

In Nairobi, our women’s self-help group is already established, developed by Jane Otai through Jhepeigo. The women are currently sewing various items and are ready to learn how to sew sanitary pads. For this project we need fabric, sewing notions and a trainer to provide the impetus to develop the idea into a viable business.

In Kolkata, we are starting fresh with a small group of women eagerly looking forward to this opportunity. Here we are looking for 10 sewing machines and a location, as well as fabric and notions. Most importantly, we need to offer the support to find a trainer and mentor for the group.

We have the opportunity to put this jugaad into motion and help women to empower themselves! Are you in?

The faith to teach

When I first met Rosy her life seemed so bleak. Life’s difficulties and painful events had left her feeling depressed and hopeless. Among other things, there was simply not enough money to provide for her sick parents and younger brother. With nothing left over for education, Rosy could see no way out. Growing up in a slum in Kolkata has many, many challenges, and as the oldest child, supporting the family rested firmly on her shoulders.

When my friend Ritika introduced us we immediately bonded. As we talked – a spark of hope – it became obvious that Rosy longed to teach! There was a Christian campus just outside Calcutta and we prayed that she would be accepted. When the acceptance letter arrived a few months later we were overjoyed! Together we prepared for this new purpose in her life and she went off to school with huge determination.

RosyRecently I received this letter from Rosy:

“I am over joyed that God has fullfill my dream and I am very thankful to dear Brenda who stood with me in prayer and money support and also I want to thank Ritika and family for their guidance in my life.  I am so thankful to Jesus who listend my prayer and I could over come through many trial in my life. Today I am so proud to hold FIRST CLASS CARTIFICATE for a teacher degree! ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU FOR ALL WHAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME! Please pray for me continually that I am get Job soon and help my family, my father is in sick bed he not able to do any work, THANKS.”

I cannot find adequate words to express the fulfillment and joy I feel to see the outcome of investing in this young woman! Her faith and hard work have now given her this proud smile! She hopes to teach in a Christian School near the family home in the slum so that she can continue to care for her family.

God in Kolkata

Akash is a passionate 17-year old with a heart for the poor in his home city of Calcutta. He grew up working in the slums with his family – his sister, mom and dad – a family I have had the pleasure of knowing and working alongside over the years. The following video is an example of the unique way that Akash Daniel Mondal has found of expressing what he sees daily in his Kolkata.

God in Kolkata